60 Affirmations for Anxious Attachment

In the intricate world of relationships, our attachment style profoundly influences our emotional well-being. For those with anxious attachments, a constant undercurrent of uncertainty and longing can leave us feeling overwhelmed. 

But what if there was a way to rewrite our inner narrative, cultivating a sense of security and tranquility? 

Enter the incredible power of affirmations.

With our amazing list of some positive affirmations for anxious attachment, you can embark on a transformative journey towards cultivating a sense of security and tranquility in your relationships.

Not only will you begin to release the grip of anxiety and fear that is holding you back, but you will also develop a deeper sense of self-worth and confidence within you that will help you pass any hurdle in life. 

60 Affirmations for Anxious Attachment

1. I trust in my partner’s love and commitment towards me, and the strength of our bond will stand the test of time.
   
   
2. My relationship is healthy, secure, and fulfilling, something that I have always craved to create with my partner. 
   
   
3. I deserve an amazing level of love and affection, and I choose to open myself up to receive it without any kind of fear or hesitation.
   
   
4. I recognize that my anxious attachment style is a result of my past experiences, and I choose to actively work on healing and improving my emotional well-being.
   
   
5. My strength and resilience during times of uncertainty will help me handle any kind of challenges that come my way. 
   
   
6. I am permitted to express my needs and feelings in my relationships, and I trust that my partner will listen and respond with an equal amount of love.
   
   
7. My choice is that I will be focusing on the present and letting go off all future worries, trusting that everything will unfold in the way that it is meant to.
   
   
8. My connection with my partner is deep and meaningful, which I am committed to nurturing and strengthening over time. 
   
   
9. I trust that my partner is honest and truthful with me, and I choose to have faith in the words and actions that follow.
   
   
10. I recognize that my anxiety may sometimes cloud my judgment and cause me to feel insecure, but I choose to work on managing my emotions and maintaining a positive outlook towards life in general. 
    

11.  I am loving the way I am, and this is the basic foundation of a healthy and secure relationship. 
    
    
12. My communication with my partner would be open and honest and I trust that it is an absolute necessity to build the necessary intimacy in the relationship.
    
    
13. My partner’s bad actions and behavior are not always a reflection of his/her worth or value, and I choose to rectify it in the most right way possible.
    
    
14. I am worthy of love and affection, and I am capable of receiving it with grace and gratitude.
    
    
15. I am deserving of a partner who understands and supports my needs, and I trust that they will meet me halfway.
    
    
16. I release the need for constant reassurance and choose to believe in the strength of our connection.
    
    
17. I am secure in myself, and I find solace in knowing that I am enough for my partner.
    
    
18. I let go of past relationship traumas and embrace the present moment with an open heart.
    
    
19. I am not defined by my anxious attachment style, and I am capable of forming healthy and secure relationships.
    
    
20. I choose to focus on the positives in my relationship and let go of unnecessary doubts and worries.
    
    

21. I am a valuable and lovable person, and I attract healthy and secure love into my life.
    
    
22. I embrace vulnerability as a strength, knowing that it deepens the bond between my partner and me.
    
    
23. I am in control of my emotions, and I choose to respond to triggers with love and understanding.
    
    
24. I have the capacity to offer love, understanding, and compassion in my relationship.
    
    
25. My worth is not determined by the behavior or feelings of others; I know I am inherently valuable.
    
    
26. I am embracing my emotional growth and am continuously working on my relationship health.
    
    
27. I trust in the process of relationship building and the strength of our bond.
    
    
28. I believe in the mutual respect and affection that my partner and I share.
    
    
29. My fear of abandonment does not define me; I am greater than my anxieties.
    
    
30. I am releasing my past hurt and embracing the love and positivity that is present in my life.
    
    

31. I am worthy of being cherished, loved, and cared for in my relationship.
    
    
32. I am committed to maintaining open communication and honest dialogue with my partner.
    
    
33. My relationship is a safe space for me to express my feelings and fears.
    
    
34. I understand and appreciate my partner’s needs and desires as they do mine.
    
    
35. My feelings of anxiety are valid, and I’m learning to manage them in healthy ways.
    
    
36. I trust that my partner sees and values the real me, with all my strengths and weaknesses.
    
    
37. I’m willing to ask for what I need and to trust that my needs will be respected and met.
    
    
38. I accept that everyone makes mistakes, including me, and that it’s an opportunity for growth and understanding.
    
    
39. I am capable of receiving love without feeling the need to control or manipulate the relationship.
    
    
40. I am dedicated to understanding and healing my anxious attachment for my well-being.
    

41. I trust in my ability to communicate effectively and assertively with my partner.
    
    
42. I choose to focus on the love and happiness in my relationship instead of my fears and insecurities.
    
    
43. I am brave enough to work through my anxious attachment, recognizing it as a path towards a healthier relationship.
    
    
44. I am letting go of past insecurities and embracing the strength of our connection.
    
    
45. I have faith in my partner’s commitment to me and our relationship.
    
    
46. I understand that my value does not lie in others’ approval but within myself.
    
    
47. I am continuously growing, evolving, and becoming a more secure partner.
    
    
48. I am at peace with myself, and this inner tranquility positively influences my relationship.
    
    
49. I am capable of creating a safe and nurturing environment for both myself and my partner.
    
    
50. I trust in the growth and evolution of my relationship, knowing that challenges bring us closer together.
    

51. I release the need for perfection and embrace the beauty of imperfections within myself and my relationship.
    
    
52. I choose to communicate my needs clearly and assertively, trusting that my partner will respect and honor them.
    
    
53. I am resilient in the face of uncertainty, and I trust that we can navigate any obstacles that come our way.
    
    
54. I am deserving of a love that brings me peace, joy, and a sense of emotional security.
    
    
55. I release the need to control every aspect of my relationship and instead allow it to unfold naturally.
    
    
56. I am grateful for the love and support I receive from my partner, and I reciprocate it with my own love and care.
    
    
57. I am committed to my own personal growth and development, and I trust that this will help me to become a more secure and confident partner in my relationships.
    
    
58. I am capable of creating a healthy balance between my own needs and those of my partner, and I recognize that this is an important aspect of a secure and fulfilling relationship.
    
    
59. I choose to let go of my fear of rejection and to trust that I am worthy of love and acceptance, regardless of any perceived flaws or imperfections.
    
    
60. I am deserving of respect and kindness in my relationships, and I choose to surround myself with people who treat me with care and compassion.